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Realistic Matchmaking for Realistic Singles


Call 800 -252-6210 for details

Welcome to Tri State Dating Service website! 

My name is John Holt, founder, owner, and your personal professional matchmaker at Tri-State Dating Service, LLC in business since 1992. Tri-State Dating Service serves singles in CT, RI, MA, and eastern NY.  Unlike services that ask you to pay them money online, each client will meet with me in person after a consultation.  I will meet you in the town or city that you live in.  You can expect a full assessment of dating expectations, dating strategies, personal preferences, and the most important aspects of who you are, who is attracted to you, who you are compatible with, and who you are likely to succeed with in the pursuit of a meaningful relationship. 

 Why choose Tri-State Dating Service?

  •  Reasonable prices
  • Value system and personality matching

  • Understanding who you attract and who is attracted to you

  • Matching for longevity

  • Lifestyle and activity matching

  • Fun social dinner parties

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At Tri-State Dating Service, you approve all matches offered to you.  Because this service has been around since 1992, there is a large database of members.  You must ask anyone you choose to do business with “how long have they been around”?  Experience matters.  Unlike other services, Tri-State Dating Service has had the same name since 1992. 

 Please call 1-800-252-6210.  All of your questions will be answered. 

 You may have access to Tri-State Dating Service 7 days a week from 8am-10pm.  All clients of Tri-State Dating Service are welcome to give feedback about their dating experiences to their Matchmaker.

Tri-State Dating Service has a vast network of resources.  The members of this service are in every section of the states listed.  However, you may be involved in national searches if you choose to do so. 

The choice is yours!  You may choose a Matchmaker who has been in business since 1992 with all the extensive experience that the professional Matchmaker has, or you can choose to do business with companies who have changed their name consistently and popped up overnight.

Matchmaking is a complex process.  Let me help you navigate through that process.  While in that process you will meet people who are safe.  This service is confidential.  This service will meet your personal needs.

 Relationship building is the cornerstone of the process.  It is all about attitude, attraction, acceptance, lifestyle, and value system.  A Matchmaker is a good friend to have by your side.

Tri-State Dating Service is the clear choice.  Call 1-800-252-6210.




"Let me introduce you to someone I know"

  Please call 800-252-6210 seven days a week from 8am-10pm.


Contact us at 800-252-6210 or email us for more information.

Tri-State Dating Service does not under any circumstances discriminate against people based on race, color, religion or sexual orientation.