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The real truth in relationship development is to end your thinking about failure.  My campaign these days is to show single people that a great relationship is the pathway to a lifetime of prosperity. I want to have a service that goes far beyond just giving people dates. 

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It never ceases to amaze me that in dating, single people can lose all sight of the obvious.  I see accomplished bright single people who know so many complex details about many subjects, yet they loose any grip on reality when it comes to dating.

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As Americans these days we have taken the quest for finding a permanent relationship to complicated extremes.  The media control over your mind using images that are from Main Street America adds fuel to the fire.  Pop- culture, magazines, shows like millionaire matchmaker, real housewives of whatever city or state, books, TV, It is all around you.  When you drink the kool aid you think in delirious terms.  The fact is that men are chasing images of Barbie Dolls when there are barely anymore than 5% of all women that look like this.  Magazines for both men and woman glorify images that came from a modeling agency.  Millionaire matchmaker portrays some rather oddball millionaires in pursuit of woman that look like hooters girls.  This is not reality and as you know you have entered the realm of realistic matchmaking in order to read this.  I say that what I just wrote is the start of serious disintegration of any real chance for any normal person to succeed at dating. 

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All your actions are under a social microscope these days.  With social media and so many forms of communication you will be looked at more than ever.  I say that you should make a vow to promote the building of viable relationships and advocate for responsible behavior. 

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Many single people convince themselves that thinking a certain way is the absolute way.  In realistic matchmaking there is another way.  I understand through great analysis that dating is psychological.  The dating process can be anxiety ridden.  Many a single person will run from rejection rather than embrace it.  Many times I hear single people are depressed.   Let’s examine why psychology has all to do with dating.

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Make no mistake about it.  Attitude has a great deal to do with successful dating.  Attracting more quality people with a smile and an open mind is the name of the game.  Complaining about the opposite sex and whining will get you nowhere fast. 

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     Hi everybody.  I didn’t name my radio show Networking Singles for nothing.  I firmly believe that every living human being has value.  Each human being must make a choice to assert who they are.  My radio show is an example of how I assert my brand Realistic Matchmaking.  The listener’s of my show will tell you that I get you to think.  I want you to think about building a vast network.  Maybe you start by listening to my show every Thursday on 1380 AM WNRI from 6-8 PM EST.  Stream it on the internet at www.wnri.com. I believe in the power to persuade.  I believe that if I can persuade you to be open, accepting, with a willingness to talk to people and give them a chance, you will win in the dating game. 

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     Hi everyone.  I am ever so happy these days.  I am happy because my personal New Year’s resolution is to analyze why people were miserable in 2011 and change that in 2012.  I am pleased to tell all of you that in the last 6 weeks progress is being made.   My constant communication is working.   My analysis of the future is brightening up.

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If you had a wish what would you wish for?  I think many single people lament too much about their plight to finding the right person.  In the greatest charming moment in life what would be a valentine wish for you?   Would it be inspiration?  What could I say to inspire you?  I think wisdom is a good thing to wish for in dating.  I think that those that exhibit wisdom make the right choices.  Maybe you could draw from the many quotes famous people made in order to inspire you. 

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I hear about attraction all the time.  Many men base the decision to date women on visual attraction.  In this world we live in a known fact is prevalent, men are visual.  Men are more visual now than ever in my 20 year history of matchmaking.  This caused me to write this article out of great concern.  Why?  Because I think the journey starts when people can embrace the inner self.  I think many men need to look inside women to see the real appeal.  Dating smart instead of visual is what I promote.

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In the singles industry image is a key element to any marketing strategy.  When I got into this business I knew it was full of fluffy looking image messages.  I knew that a matchmaker like me had room to flourish.  Why do you think I am here after 20 years?  I am here because my image and the image I created for Tri-State Dating Service is about truth, realism and relationship building.  So please understand that it isn’t about how things look it is about telling the truth to singles.  I have seen dating services that look good in their presentation.  There is one out there now that changed their name 3 times, they know how to look good, just check the consumer websites and see the huge amount of complaints about them.  Check their websites and what you see is the image of slickness.

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Dating can be fun.  The very idea of people getting together can be purely for fun times.  I believe if you can have fun dates for 3-6 months without the intensity you will have a better chance to end up in a relationship.  It does take a certain fun attitude in order to progress in this idea of mine.

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Have you thought lately that dating is like casino gambling?  Just throw the money down and see what happens. Dating in the minds of many is throwing you into a lottery. Well you may not be alone. The nomadic nature of running from on line dating sites to dances, meet up groups, speed dating, night clubs, activity organizations, social groups and yes ,matchmakers can leave you’re head spinning. My advice to you is to examine why you assume things about people. Going even further take a look at why the vast analysis you put people through may not be healthy.

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Hi everyone, it is time to begin to get a grip on reality, curb anxiety, and adopt a strategy of willing acceptance. In 2011 I saw an all time record number of bitter singles who are on this endless search for the perfect one! Even though time and time again I have in numerous ways advised you that there is no perfect one for anyone!

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Here I go again, some of you know that I feel online dating is a vast failure. The popularity of this craze came to its heightened state in 2005. The market has lost consumers every year since.  Just check out every complaint website on the internet you will find more complaints about online dating sites, you wont find any complaints about Tri-State Dating Service. Many of you go to online dating sites because you think it is a cheap way to meet people. Online dating sites are nothing more than an extension of the personal advertisements that frequented magazines and news papers. The benefit of a service like mine is safety and verification. In these electronic personals called online dating sites it is a free for all. The honor system is what you depend on there.

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On behalf of Tri-State Dating Service I wish all of you a happy New Year.  I wish all of you a productive year in 2012. Here are 150 New Year’s resolutions from John Holt, the matchmaker.

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Christmas has always been one of my favorite holidays. There is always a certain feeling you get this time of year.  I will next say that for those that allow a feeling of enchantment, Christmas can be special.

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On behalf of Tri-State Dating Service I wish anyone who reads this and the many members a very meaningful holiday season. I have permeated the world of singles and dating over the last 20 years. I must say these are challenging times. Men and woman should use this season to rebuild trust to spread goodwill. My unique perspective about the current climate finds me writing to you in spirit. The spirit of the season should bring us all to think. It is time to heal from the toxic thinking. It is a time to celebrate. This season is special. I get into a different mood, one of Great Spirit. Please understand the ship must travel back on course next year. The expectations combined with anger over not achieving these expectations must be reviewed. I hope that humor reaches many of you. It is important to laugh, rejoice and enjoy each other. I hope that the spirit of the season finds you in good health retaining your dignified role in humanity. I am hoping your imaginations are bringing gifts to one another this year. The best gift is a wonderful relationship. The idea of a relationship breeds fear in many. I say that this year in this time as part of the spirit of the season is time for new development.

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I am not afraid to give out doses of reality. It seems most singles are frustrated with online dating websites. In general many singles are frustrated with dating. I will go further and point out that dating has become a lightning rod subject. Dating brings out raw human emotions otherwise kept in check. Those dating websites are not living up to what they were meant to be. If we lived in a perfect world the dating website would put you in touch with other singles fast. The people you would meet would be other than liars, cheats, thieves, predators, emotionally unstable and people you just don’t think are for you. It would have been perfect in a perfect world. I’m sorry, we don’t live in perfection. I know, here I go again. I don’t mind going here until many of you get it.

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Ladies and gentleman this is the single most important set of issues facing us in dating. Expectations in many cases are out of control. I read about this all the time. I deal with unrealistic expectations every week. I sometimes wonder where the origin of all this pie in the sky thinking comes from. The first statement I want woman to think about is, there are no good men out there. Why are we hearing this from woman? I am inclined to think that there must be some good men out there. I meet and sign up good men. I think what many woman are really saying is, there are no perfect men or men that are total packages. Ladies look at you on the inside and outside. I bet you’re not a total package. I bet you’re good for most men. I think you’re not perfect, so why should men be perfect? What can a matchmaker do if you restrict him to such a small segment of the population while you put pressure on him to work the miracle fast?  Here is my advice.

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