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Tri-State Dating Service Substance over Symbolism

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In the singles industry there are many choices of service providers. These various services have relied on marketing to get the word out to prospective customers. Unfortunately many of these services choose symbolism over substance using slick marketing with packaging that looks good. These services fall far short of the fluffy picture they paint in your mind. Tri-State Dating Services offers substance. The brand of realistic matchmaking offers the truth about whom you are and who you can be with. It isn’t wrapped up in a pretty package with a neat little bow. The truth for many singles is not always what they want to hear. I think if you’re single you should ask yourself this. Why have I been failing to succeed in that relationship that for many years has eluded me? The idea that you’re too good for most people available to you is a problem that will never go away until you change your attitude and mindset. Chances are you have been ripped off by fluffy marketing tactics from online dating website providers or you fell prey to these ridiculous companies who try to charge you thousands of dollars after putting you through lengthy appointments where only after two hours of torture you get the mind blowing price of thousands of dollars, you nearly faint. The next thing that happens is you are subject to extreme, slick high pressure sales tactics. What kind of business practice is this? It was symbolism over substance. I say telling the truth is the best way to do business.Tri-State Dating Service is in its 20th year. John Holt professional matchmaker tells it like it is. I know there have been some people out there who think it is all about your look. It is to them, style points based on glitz and glitter. I know there are people who are quite critical about one little mistake on a website or you didn’t look slick in your advertising. I say this to all of you, haven’t you grown tired of deceptive, slick, symbolic advertising combined with sales tactics that are greasy to say the least? I further ask all single people if you’re tired of outrageous judgment being used by certain singles as to why they won’t date you. Did you get turned down because your e mail had a typo or the comma wasn’t in the right place? There are anal people out there. Stop and think about what in the grand scheme of anything romantic, value based or personality based it means. The decision to choose substance over symbolism is the right decision.

It is far more powerful to deal with an insightful matchmaker who tells the truth and helps you meet real people who understand what this is all about. Like clockwork you can count on the slick crowd to dress themselves up to look pretty, once you look inside you find a snake pit.

Let me paint this picture in your mind. You pay me in the hundreds for guaranteed service. You get packages that tell you exactly what you get. You will know how many people you meet in person. In my service there are no anal nitpickers. I screen them out. You will get an accurate assessment of your situation with recommendations combined with a truthful realistic strategy. Remember all the tales you were told by those symbolic slick marketers who quite frankly have no understanding of human behavior. They couldn’t even analyze the data they collect from you. I allow anyone to challenge my decisions. I know why I made them. I can tell everyone why I matched them along with the reasons for it. In my service you must be patient because the symbolic company told you anything to get you to sign up. The fact is you can’t be desperate you must have control and understand this is a process that takes a lot of personal work and a lot of time. If the timing isn’t right you will not force things to happen. Relationship building is the cornerstone of Tri-State Dating Service there is no quick fix, stop buying the slick message imbedded in symbolic, slick marketing. Stay away from single people who pass judgment on you for silly things like you had a typo in your e mail that may have been 1500 words long. If you end up with these people you will never do anything that pleases them. It is time to use your imagination to produce  decisions based on substance. In my opinion substance is what you look for instead of slick charming people who use charm to deceive you.

The secret or not so secret recipe for success is in the plan I have for you based on sound interview skills. The most important factor is the customer’s success. It is always about your benefit. The benefit comes when you embrace reality and look deep for substance. I think your long range happiness is what really matters, not about how slick I look. I am here 20 years later because I am genuine. I take on all the issues and it isn’t easy. Your choice is to get deceived by slick symbolic marketing or deal with realistic matchmaking based on substance. I promise even though I tell you the truth you might not like it is the results that count.

John Holt