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Making Real Connections

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Today we are faced with higher than ever gasoline prices. This makes everyday choices about spending money more difficult. In discretionary spending you must establish value. A bigger problem is that higher payroll taxes have added to the problem.  These economic times create uncertainty.  In dating there must be a value.  It isn’t just going out on dates; it is the quality of dates which would lead to a real connection. At Tri-State Dating Service forty five percent of all members have found real connections of six months or longer. If you pay lower prices and achieve this value then you made an investment that brings positive value.  There is no real monetary value to a great relationship.  I have heard my clients tell me they would pay anything if they ended up in a permanent relationship.  If you read this and it makes sense then join my service.  This is a more sensible approach to the complexity of relationship building than being left on your own in front of a computer screen in utter and complete frustration.

Just about every single person in CT, RI,MA, and eastern NY, have told me they are frustrated attending speed dating events and seeing no one they would be interested in and they can never learn in five minutes anything real about that person. The singles who are fleeing online dating in fear of their safety and tired of being duped by dubious characters who have used technology to prey upon innocent people.

I realize singles have larger money issues than couples do. This of course makes a great argument to connect with someone and get married if all things fall into place you have more economic power. There is a psychological component to being single struggling to make ends meet.  It plays upon the mindset of a single person.  All decisions have a bigger impact than being in a couple because you have no one to fall back on.

If you make real connections working with a real matchmaker you won’t have to spend the larger majority of your life single as those in online dating do.  The most satisfying destination is a great relationship.  If you never had one you need to trust me when I tell you it will make a major change in your outlook on life.

Recognition of expectations is the starting point to great connection. If you attract and know who to attract you will be on track to successful real connections and the feeling is not with you now however you will see the difference when you achieve it.  The whole daily outlook on life will be brighter than the sun. It all begins with learning about your expectations to establish a chance for real value.

You will find that there are expectations that are in your control and those that are uncontrollable. So what if we established matchmaking as the value that will help guide you through expectations to the point of real connections.  We together establish the pure value of Tri-State Dating Service which is growth potential.  Only an inexperienced customer uses online dating, once they gain experience they know better than to repeat a mistake.

In the greater establishment of real connection you eliminate a mundane existence. You discover that your day is central to a new understanding feeling really connected to someone. Both of you then make each other feel valued.  Two people care for each other.  You both engage in fun activities together. You both can talk about all the things you enjoy together. If you are single at the gas station you can’t talk to anyone about the experience of having your pocket picked. If you are with someone you both can pay for the gasoline.  Just thought a little relational humor would fit here. The real best part is you can do all the things both of you enjoy and relate to each other about it making memories that last forever.

So now you have found this crazy economy paralyzing you.  Why let it happen. Discover value in matchmaking so you later can say you spent it on real connection.  This is value.  When you think paralyzed you can never make decisions that will benefit you.  This paralysis will affect decision making,      perpetuate failure, cause stagnation, and make you depressed which will polarize you into bitterness.

My recipe for dating success will allow you a journey to real connection.  The belief you must have in taking risk in order to obtain reward comes from taking chances. My message here is that many of you may enhance your life through relationship building.  When you build relationships you do it from real connection.  Your needs match with another person’s needs, you become success oriented instead of a failure. The frustration in life turns to joy.  You go from feeling like a societal victim to becoming a winner in life.  Once you focus on real connection, life is a new positive experience.  A real connection of inner core values which get validated through love, respect, caring, and most of all you are with someone you can trust.  You are safe with that person you connected to.

If you have read this far then congratulations as you likely have the capacity to figure out what the key might be to unlock the door.  Is it time to make a decision to spend for value?  I will then respect you for being brave and determined.

Ask yourself this, do you want a real connection instead of an ugly relationship?  Do you want to discontinue the hurt and loneliness inside you?  Do you want to end the economic struggle of going it alone?  Then embrace this matchmaking service as a real investment in real connection.

Understanding where we are in this country currently will give you a sense that you need more support in real connection.  Taking action is the next step.

If you have been discouraged about the future and saw no real value in online dating or speed dating then a future to building real connection is in matchmaking.  There are numerous realistic solutions to that can be enacted if you are ready.

I know how to fix dating for you if dating has become a broken process. A matchmaker has strategic vision. The future is built in real connections forming in the present. I can give you alternative vision that works in making real connections.

 

John Holt

Matchmaker

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