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Magnetic Attraction

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Attraction is it visual like most people think.  I am here to tell you this would be a false assumption.  Magnetism is far more of an internal mechanism that determines attraction than visual appeal.  The reason is that in the laws of attraction two complimentary magnets cannot be pulled apart.  These magnets are meant to be connected.  A person who has the inner keys to a healthy relationship will be magnetic to another with the same goal.


In the aspect of dating life it is magnetism that draws you in deeper than visual appeal.  How you think and project your thoughts has much more power in attraction than anything else.  You can influence potential partners in the power of your thinking combined with eloquence will make you irresistible to many. 


Did you know there are universal human values for which people attract one another? These values are very important in Matchmaking.  They are honesty, balance, sincerity, kindness and respect. These values create a foundation for the atmosphere of value system attraction.  If you have core values that match you are two positive magnets.  These values are present inside all human beings.  These values can be dormant or active in thought process, once projected to like- minded people of the opposite sex they then can draw people together.


Make no mistake about this fact.  Men who celebrate traditional masculinity and women who are very confident in allowing their feminine side to be exposed are likely going to attract with no apparent trouble.   Men need to appear masculine and women must be feminine for the natural process to be healthy.  This is your biological primal destiny.   The time has come to clear up the confusion men and women have about gender.  Once we clear the path magnetism will be allowed to flourish on a natural basis and more people will get together.   If we aspire to understand people based on who they are we will likely be magnets to them.


The keys to being a highly magnetic person are, freedom from negativity, letting go of past bias, listening to the thoughts of what is in the heart of another person, being kind and respectful.  These are virtues!  These values and virtues will make you a figure that is drawn too.  You will have charisma that allows people to follow you. When a lot of people follow you they are attracted to you.


Magnetism reaches out of you and draws in the desired target of that magnetism.    Charm and charisma comes from personal strength. When you have these attributes you draw people toward you making you magnetic.  It is your personality not your looks that has the power.


As Matchmaker I promote the ideas of magnetism.  I know the laws of attraction in action.  Once you realize it you create your own personal value. 


Appearance and demeanor can be false indicators of attraction.  You do not have to be photogenic as a matter of fact the online dating industry has fooled you into the idea of picture shopping.  Where does this get you?  A photo tells you nothing.   A pleasing personality is way ahead of a picture.  It is critical that you bring to the universe a presence that draws people toward you instead of one that repels people. 


The discovery of a magnetic event between two people will occur when you meet in person not online not in social media sites and not through e mail and text messaging.  You must go out and meet them in person where it happens.  It happens no other way.  If I as Matchmaker can make this happen then your magnetism will take over. I simply need to be the catalyst to help you do that.   My job is to prepare you to be the best you can be.  I want you to use the powers you have to be magnetic. If I feel you need to know the tools I will teach you.  This thing called magnetism is inside you.  The fact is you must allow it to come out.


Start attracting for real, leave the pictures behind, they don’t talk to you or relate they are just pictures.  I call pictures in dating, fool’s gold.




John Holt