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Healthy Relationship Building

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Tri-State Dating Service is more than just matchmaking it is about building healthy relationships.  A bigger commitment in connecting with each other.  When we show deeper consideration of people we get back a bigger reward in return.   We create new options, we see farther into a long term future.  Having a vision for the future is what establishes relationship building goals.  If I can convince people that they should have a resolve toward staying together then we will have less divorce and people will learn more about people allowing them to make the right choices.  If we take the time to dig deeper and not succumb to instant gratification then our decisions will produce long term lasting relationships.  Do you have the drive and passion to get to a more sophisticated level of dating?  A level of dating that is respectable and not instant gratification hook up culture.

When you aspire to a healthy relationship you have a sense of connection with your partner.  You feel positive energy driving the relationship.  The experiences are quality and the events are driven by positive energy.  In a healthy relationship there is personal security giving you confidence.  Human connection becomes addictive, there is power in interactions.  A mental connectedness as if two minds were dancing together.

When you and your partner are in mental tandem together you reach goals.  When you reach goals together you facilitate closeness. The feelings of closeness are going to make you feel better daily.

If you feel you are ready for a relationship consider the following.  You must be a happy person.  You are always honest with people in your interactions.  You keep your word and are a reliable person.  You honor your partner and back them up.  You have the humility to admit wrong doing. You forgive others and they shall forgive you.  The idea of integrity is always part of you.  The very inside of you suggests there is a soul mate in the universe.  In developing a relationship you accept people and do not judge based on perception.  You embrace people for who they are and do not attempt to change them.

If you want a healthy relationship you must have a healthy mind.  Thinking through the vast dimensions of understanding that humans are complex is a wise decision.  I often will tell anyone who will listen that it takes time, investing in one person a vast amount of time instead of chasing many.

Do you have satisfying days?  Dreading getting up in the morning is the start of a bad attitude all day long.  Change the mindset folks!

It is very important to honor and care about the person you are with.  You can measure a healthy relationship by who is valued as a human being.  Show a level of appreciation to who you are with.  Try to listen to your partner.

You must care about and for your partner; never take the relationship for granted.  Develop energy that shows you care.  Doom and gloom will destroy energy. There are so many circumstances in life that build relationships.  Pay attention to every small detail.

In dating today I ask all of you, do you really care? Can you do the work that builds relationships or are you just wandering aimlessly through life.  Have you done something good for your partner?  Do you speak with kindness?  Do you forgive the past?  Giving, healing, understanding, sharing the positive energy.  The passion for life is contagious!    Get excited about sharing energy.  Deliver yourself in great excitement to someone out there.  Fill your life with joy, happiness and the best energy. Don’t ever allow the world to drag you down. March to the beat of passionate energy, you will be liked.  In dating it begins with liking each other. You must relax and like each other, have a great conversation and you will see the brighter future which is a relationship that lasts a long time.

Caring about people is important; we have to get back to caring about people.  Honor what you know, share it with others, impart knowledge, and nurture the mind, body, spirit and emotions of the person you are with.  Emotional needs must be met in relationships.

If we blossom as humans we won’t drown in the negative society we live in.

Remember the past and deal with darkness once and for all.  The past is history so please let go!  If you are damaged from the past seek healing soon.  Move forward not backward.

Deal with personal problems soon and get rid of the issues that haunt you so as to present yourself in the best frame of mind.  Embrace change do not run from it.

If we accept ourselves having done our best to relate then we truly can say we are healthy.  Everything comes from relational beings.


John Holt