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Hi everyone, attraction is this mythical term defined by so many elusive thoughts inside each persons mind. Many of you have searched the world over for someone you find attractive. Many men these days define attraction by looks only. The superficial idea of attraction is alive and well with men. Wait a minute, isn’t that way of thinking shallow?

It is my belief that you can promote yourself the right way. In doing so you can attract many singles for dating, friendship and a long term relationship. You must make an effort. Dating takes time and energy. If you embrace a realistic matchmaking approach you will become efficient meet credible single people and create memories that are pleasant.

In order to stand out in the dating pool you have to differentiate yourself in some way from the crowd. The one who is reasonable, smiles are happy will get dates. In my opinion you should be personally engaging. I met a new client the other day in East Providence R.I. she has charisma and genuine personal charm. Men you should understand that a woman like this is the real key to a better future. Why, because she will spark an interest in you. The idea is to open up your mind and let it figure out just how interesting and appealing she is.

Promoting your positive traits can pay off big. The dating partners you come in contact with can successfully expand your social circle. When you expand your social circle all kinds of opportunities arise. Even if you meet someone that isn’t the one for you they might know someone who is a prospect. Dating is about the expansion of opportunities. The more opportunities you make available to you the better likelihood that you will find someone special. Meeting realistic credible singles can be a chore. When you meet one you will be pleasantly surprised. I suggest that during your search you not get frustrated or cynical. It is about the expansion of networks. The ability you have to be social.

Many of you have fallen prey to the media these days. The media has told you that the economy is crumbling. The media has scared you into not living your life. The media has you thinking you will lose your job and life savings in the coming months. For many of you this is far from the truth, yet you have withdrawn yourself from living your life. This thinking turns you sour inside and makes you unattractive. You can’t attract anyone when you’re depressed. It is not attractive to live in fear.

Being attractive means that people send positive signals. When you send a body language message of warm, inviting and flirtation will give you at every turn an opportunity to attract. Attraction is about magnetic appeal. The people who understand this are getting more chances to be successful in dating. Dating success has many complexities to it. Attraction is the key that opens the door. Any chance you have for a meaningful relationship will depend on attraction.

If it is your soul mate your searching for you must have the inner level of personal attraction to draw someone in. When you draw them in you must have the time and ability to connect on all levels. You must connect in every aspect of who you are as a human being. You must look for consistency in your dating partner. This consistency must be in alignment with your value systems many great relationships are developed based on similar values in life. Many people who date because they saw a picture and like looks have been doomed to fail. Superficial relationships have no staying power and end up in chronic breakdown. You can’t get close with someone you find visually attractive unless you have an intimate feeling that draws you together. Appeal is more about connection formed rather than a visual image. I ask this question. Do you feel drawn to a beautiful woman or handsome man who has a miserable disposition? The answer for many is no.

When you decide to attract someone you must develop a plan. Hire a matchmaker, search on your own, go to events. Do whatever you think is acceptable to you. Just do it! Never mind the country is in a mess or the media has made you depressed, just do it!  When you decide to meet people you must be warm and wonderful. Friendly is attractive, just like the woman who signed up with my service the other day, she knows how to enter a room and command attention. She is genuine and interesting. The body language suggests she is a social success. These things are attractive.

Just one easy smile can make you attractive. You can’t smile if you’re depressed. A smile on your face will put a smile in your voice. Did you know your voice can attract people? It most certainly can. I suggest a fun sounding voice with a fun tone to it. Sometimes genuine emotion in a voice will attract someone. This shows passion. A passionate person attracting other passionate people will live a lifetime of meaningful experiences. If you have a voice that is not bland and has different inflection to it you will convey your real thoughts. I have continuously told many singles that communication is key to dating and relationships.

So are you hungry for attraction? Have you put yourself on the sideline from fear of the economy? Do you thirst with desire? It is time for the anger, frustration and depression to take a vacation in the united states. The blame is placed upon negative media. Start listening to a different message. Convert your mind to the principles of the laws of attraction. Once your attitude is positive you will attract very positive people. When you decide that an article like this makes sense then call me 800-252-6210 as I have many people who want to meet you.


John Holt