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Tri-State  Dating service has a soul.  There is guidance in the ethical process here at Tri-State Dating Service.  In business since 1992 under the ethical principles of providing the truthful assessment to single people so they can succeed realistically at dating and build strong relationships.  Professional Matchmaker John Holt will never waiver from this philosophy.  To understand dating is to understand human behavior.  Dating is psychological.   The role social influence has had on our world especially with social media and the internet has made vastly complex the world of dating.  My purpose as Matchmaker is to help you through the process.  The process is sometimes confusing and dating can be a very unfair account of life as an experience.  I believe that shaping behavior, developing a positive attitude, being compassionate with other people’s feelings, having thoughts of success combined with a magnetic  spirit are all ingredients to get you to a permanent relationship.   Many single people crave the transition from the dating pool to the relationship building phase.  It takes work and agreement that you will be someone who operates inside of acceptance of people.

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I hear two major things these days from women.  Where are the men? I also hear “There are no good men out there”

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In the singles industry there are many choices of service providers. These various services have relied on marketing to get the word out to prospective customers. Unfortunately many of these services choose symbolism over substance using slick marketing with packaging that looks good. These services fall far short of the fluffy picture they paint in your mind. Tri-State Dating Services offers substance. The brand of realistic matchmaking offers the truth about whom you are and who you can be with. It isn’t wrapped up in a pretty package with a neat little bow. The truth for many singles is not always what they want to hear. I think if you’re single you should ask yourself this. Why have I been failing to succeed in that relationship that for many years has eluded me? The idea that you’re too good for most people available to you is a problem that will never go away until you change your attitude and mindset. Chances are you have been ripped off by fluffy marketing tactics from online dating website providers or you fell prey to these ridiculous companies who try to charge you thousands of dollars after putting you through lengthy appointments where only after two hours of torture you get the mind blowing price of thousands of dollars, you nearly faint. The next thing that happens is you are subject to extreme, slick high pressure sales tactics. What kind of business practice is this? It was symbolism over substance. I say telling the truth is the best way to do business.Tri-State Dating Service is in its 20th year. John Holt professional matchmaker tells it like it is. I know there have been some people out there who think it is all about your look. It is to them, style points based on glitz and glitter. I know there are people who are quite critical about one little mistake on a website or you didn’t look slick in your advertising. I say this to all of you, haven’t you grown tired of deceptive, slick, symbolic advertising combined with sales tactics that are greasy to say the least? I further ask all single people if you’re tired of outrageous judgment being used by certain singles as to why they won’t date you. Did you get turned down because your e mail had a typo or the comma wasn’t in the right place? There are anal people out there. Stop and think about what in the grand scheme of anything romantic, value based or personality based it means. The decision to choose substance over symbolism is the right decision.

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Many times I hear feedback from people who went on dates and told me so much information. This information is used to apply scrutiny and analysis. Did you ever stop and wonder if you went to deep to fast? Did you ever wonder that all of life’s challenges are met in an imperfect way? I have seen many of you create litmus tests that are so intense that many a person could never succeed with you.

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Hi everyone, attraction is this mythical term defined by so many elusive thoughts inside each persons mind. Many of you have searched the world over for someone you find attractive. Many men these days define attraction by looks only. The superficial idea of attraction is alive and well with men. Wait a minute, isn’t that way of thinking shallow?

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