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If people develop great personal interaction skills they will find the pathway to meeting people who will find them interesting.  When you know the skills of how to interact with people they will pay attention to you with the idea that they would become friends, social acquaintances, maybe date you and yes perhaps end up in a meaningful relationship.  If larger numbers of single people get out from behind the computer screen, put the smart phones down and interact face to face we will change the dating culture. If you follow my idea here you likely will rack up the numbers of people you have positive social contact with.

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I thought I would take the time to write about   the Matchmaking Business as it is currently functioning.  My role has changed a great deal in 24 years.  Now more than ever there is a vast amount of ideas about how single people define themselves and go about dating.   The truth is that learned behavior on online dating sites and apps. Has caused a new socially accepted way that people deal with one another.  Matchmakers have to help singles deprogram themselves from this behavior and re-think how they interact more successfully in order to date for success.  In online dating and apps. Very small amounts of people are successful.  What most people experience are miscommunication problems that keep men and women away from one another.  This further breeds skepticism, mistrust and perceptions that really have no bearing on who the people are or what kind of person they are,  As the internet becomes a daily adventure for most people it still remains the wild wild west of dating.   It should come as no surprise that through vast research I have formed conclusions about how online dating is destroying dating. 

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If you have discovered lately that dating is difficult and building relationships is hard work then count yourself as one of men/women who get it.  Yes it really is time to change course in the success path. You can succeed in dating if you make a pledge to relax, enjoy people and learn about them at a slow steady pace. Did I forget to mention fun? Yes fun and more fun early on in dating is a great idea.  Dating as if you were in a quest to find the one is wrong.  It keeps you single, isolated and alone!  Self- imposed exile from social activity and dating will isolate you and make you depressed.

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