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Dating can be fun.  The very idea of people getting together can be purely for fun times.  I believe if you can have fun dates for 3-6 months without the intensity you will have a better chance to end up in a relationship.  It does take a certain fun attitude in order to progress in this idea of mine.

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Have you thought lately that dating is like casino gambling?  Just throw the money down and see what happens. Dating in the minds of many is throwing you into a lottery. Well you may not be alone. The nomadic nature of running from on line dating sites to dances, meet up groups, speed dating, night clubs, activity organizations, social groups and yes ,matchmakers can leave you’re head spinning. My advice to you is to examine why you assume things about people. Going even further take a look at why the vast analysis you put people through may not be healthy.

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Hi everyone, it is time to begin to get a grip on reality, curb anxiety, and adopt a strategy of willing acceptance. In 2011 I saw an all time record number of bitter singles who are on this endless search for the perfect one! Even though time and time again I have in numerous ways advised you that there is no perfect one for anyone!

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Here I go again, some of you know that I feel online dating is a vast failure. The popularity of this craze came to its heightened state in 2005. The market has lost consumers every year since.  Just check out every complaint website on the internet you will find more complaints about online dating sites, you wont find any complaints about Tri-State Dating Service. Many of you go to online dating sites because you think it is a cheap way to meet people. Online dating sites are nothing more than an extension of the personal advertisements that frequented magazines and news papers. The benefit of a service like mine is safety and verification. In these electronic personals called online dating sites it is a free for all. The honor system is what you depend on there.

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On behalf of Tri-State Dating Service I wish all of you a happy New Year.  I wish all of you a productive year in 2012. Here are 150 New Year’s resolutions from John Holt, the matchmaker.

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Christmas has always been one of my favorite holidays. There is always a certain feeling you get this time of year.  I will next say that for those that allow a feeling of enchantment, Christmas can be special.

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On behalf of Tri-State Dating Service I wish anyone who reads this and the many members a very meaningful holiday season. I have permeated the world of singles and dating over the last 20 years. I must say these are challenging times. Men and woman should use this season to rebuild trust to spread goodwill. My unique perspective about the current climate finds me writing to you in spirit. The spirit of the season should bring us all to think. It is time to heal from the toxic thinking. It is a time to celebrate. This season is special. I get into a different mood, one of Great Spirit. Please understand the ship must travel back on course next year. The expectations combined with anger over not achieving these expectations must be reviewed. I hope that humor reaches many of you. It is important to laugh, rejoice and enjoy each other. I hope that the spirit of the season finds you in good health retaining your dignified role in humanity. I am hoping your imaginations are bringing gifts to one another this year. The best gift is a wonderful relationship. The idea of a relationship breeds fear in many. I say that this year in this time as part of the spirit of the season is time for new development.

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I am not afraid to give out doses of reality. It seems most singles are frustrated with online dating websites. In general many singles are frustrated with dating. I will go further and point out that dating has become a lightning rod subject. Dating brings out raw human emotions otherwise kept in check. Those dating websites are not living up to what they were meant to be. If we lived in a perfect world the dating website would put you in touch with other singles fast. The people you would meet would be other than liars, cheats, thieves, predators, emotionally unstable and people you just don’t think are for you. It would have been perfect in a perfect world. I’m sorry, we don’t live in perfection. I know, here I go again. I don’t mind going here until many of you get it.

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Ladies and gentleman this is the single most important set of issues facing us in dating. Expectations in many cases are out of control. I read about this all the time. I deal with unrealistic expectations every week. I sometimes wonder where the origin of all this pie in the sky thinking comes from. The first statement I want woman to think about is, there are no good men out there. Why are we hearing this from woman? I am inclined to think that there must be some good men out there. I meet and sign up good men. I think what many woman are really saying is, there are no perfect men or men that are total packages. Ladies look at you on the inside and outside. I bet you’re not a total package. I bet you’re good for most men. I think you’re not perfect, so why should men be perfect? What can a matchmaker do if you restrict him to such a small segment of the population while you put pressure on him to work the miracle fast?  Here is my advice.

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In my usual profound opinion I can see nothing but success. I get up every day and see a goal. My goal is your success. We can’t blame the past relationships for your failure. It is time for all parties to be responsible. I think it is time to take a deep breath, spend a moment in reflection, and make a decision to go on dates with an open mind. I want all men and woman to treat each other better. I want you to open up to the bright future instead of creating your dim existence.

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Posted by John Holt on Fri, Dec 11, 2009 @ 10:17 AM

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