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At every turn there seems to be a lingering attitude of despair.  I say why is this a long lingering truth.  Could it be a result of the media?  It might be a result of this massively negative presidential election.  Whatever it is I suggest we change course and look toward a brighter future. A future where human relationships take place in larger numbers.  A place where we soften our attitudes about each other and begin to work toward success.  The kind of success where we participate in everyone’s wellbeing.

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I see many advertisements on television these days rolling out the same nonsense along with the same Cool Aid that many single people drink and fall prey to.  I ask is really your time?  If you are over Fifty year’s old you know what I am talking about.  Have you had the times of your life with that special someone from ourtime.com  did you men meet the beautiful women from those advertisements that are over Fifty?  Have you ladies met Mr. Right who dates age appropriate people?  I have been told of only one good experience from that website, instead what I am hearing about is the same old things I hear all the time about any online dating site.  None of it is good news.  I further think that it is time we all started understanding that predators, players, liars, cheats, thieves and con men reside in online dating.  Just Google online dating horror stories and see the volumes of pages come up with websites full of horror stories.

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Lately I feel like a United Nations negotiator.  It absolutely amazes me what men and women put me through. In this part of my twenty year business cycle I have never heard more excuses in my life.  I would like to think I am not dealing with children.

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Do you think it is more important than ever before those men and women understand proper relationships?  I say you better believe it.

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Is chemistry magic?  Can fairy tales come true?  Did the media hijack and corner the market on image?  All of these questions are correlated to our psyche.  The term wishful thinking is a product of the questions above.  The very effects that are verbal messages, the visual illusions in dating all interfere with an ability to associate with an associated systemic approach to success.

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Today I got an email from a member of mine who lives in Needham Mass.  He doesn’t like the negativity in dating.  Neither do I.  It is human nature for people to be negative.  The news programs with the best ratings are the ones that feed you negative stories and information.  I call it Chicken Little media.  The sky is always falling according to media.  If we as human beings are going to press forward in the future we must have a vision that includes purpose and the uplifting of all human beings on earth.

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If you are under 35 this article is just for you.  There is a growing number of single men and women of quality joining Tri-State Dating Service from 23-34.  Many of you are leaving online dating sites because of the utter frustration you are going through.  Online dating has not cured loneliness if anything it has created a deception that rank’s up there with some of the biggest con games in America.   At the rate things are going for many of you opening the door to any meaningful relationship might not happen until you’re 40.

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I am always delighted when reasonable thinking singles embrace realistic matchmaking.  This means they have found out that dreams, fairy tales and phony marketing from other dating services will not produce results.  Reasonable thinking single people have discovered that online dating sites are not going to help you meet anyone.  As a matter of fact these sites cause you to spend 12 hours a week communicating with people only to be frustrated in the lack of results.

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The real truth in relationship development is to end your thinking about failure.  My campaign these days is to show single people that a great relationship is the pathway to a lifetime of prosperity. I want to have a service that goes far beyond just giving people dates. 

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It never ceases to amaze me that in dating, single people can lose all sight of the obvious.  I see accomplished bright single people who know so many complex details about many subjects, yet they loose any grip on reality when it comes to dating.

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As Americans these days we have taken the quest for finding a permanent relationship to complicated extremes.  The media control over your mind using images that are from Main Street America adds fuel to the fire.  Pop- culture, magazines, shows like millionaire matchmaker, real housewives of whatever city or state, books, TV, It is all around you.  When you drink the kool aid you think in delirious terms.  The fact is that men are chasing images of Barbie Dolls when there are barely anymore than 5% of all women that look like this.  Magazines for both men and woman glorify images that came from a modeling agency.  Millionaire matchmaker portrays some rather oddball millionaires in pursuit of woman that look like hooters girls.  This is not reality and as you know you have entered the realm of realistic matchmaking in order to read this.  I say that what I just wrote is the start of serious disintegration of any real chance for any normal person to succeed at dating. 

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All your actions are under a social microscope these days.  With social media and so many forms of communication you will be looked at more than ever.  I say that you should make a vow to promote the building of viable relationships and advocate for responsible behavior. 

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Many single people convince themselves that thinking a certain way is the absolute way.  In realistic matchmaking there is another way.  I understand through great analysis that dating is psychological.  The dating process can be anxiety ridden.  Many a single person will run from rejection rather than embrace it.  Many times I hear single people are depressed.   Let’s examine why psychology has all to do with dating.

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Make no mistake about it.  Attitude has a great deal to do with successful dating.  Attracting more quality people with a smile and an open mind is the name of the game.  Complaining about the opposite sex and whining will get you nowhere fast. 

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     Hi everybody.  I didn’t name my radio show Networking Singles for nothing.  I firmly believe that every living human being has value.  Each human being must make a choice to assert who they are.  My radio show is an example of how I assert my brand Realistic Matchmaking.  The listener’s of my show will tell you that I get you to think.  I want you to think about building a vast network.  Maybe you start by listening to my show every Thursday on 1380 AM WNRI from 6-8 PM EST.  Stream it on the internet at www.wnri.com. I believe in the power to persuade.  I believe that if I can persuade you to be open, accepting, with a willingness to talk to people and give them a chance, you will win in the dating game. 

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     Hi everyone.  I am ever so happy these days.  I am happy because my personal New Year’s resolution is to analyze why people were miserable in 2011 and change that in 2012.  I am pleased to tell all of you that in the last 6 weeks progress is being made.   My constant communication is working.   My analysis of the future is brightening up.

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If you had a wish what would you wish for?  I think many single people lament too much about their plight to finding the right person.  In the greatest charming moment in life what would be a valentine wish for you?   Would it be inspiration?  What could I say to inspire you?  I think wisdom is a good thing to wish for in dating.  I think that those that exhibit wisdom make the right choices.  Maybe you could draw from the many quotes famous people made in order to inspire you. 

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I hear about attraction all the time.  Many men base the decision to date women on visual attraction.  In this world we live in a known fact is prevalent, men are visual.  Men are more visual now than ever in my 20 year history of matchmaking.  This caused me to write this article out of great concern.  Why?  Because I think the journey starts when people can embrace the inner self.  I think many men need to look inside women to see the real appeal.  Dating smart instead of visual is what I promote.

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In the singles industry image is a key element to any marketing strategy.  When I got into this business I knew it was full of fluffy looking image messages.  I knew that a matchmaker like me had room to flourish.  Why do you think I am here after 20 years?  I am here because my image and the image I created for Tri-State Dating Service is about truth, realism and relationship building.  So please understand that it isn’t about how things look it is about telling the truth to singles.  I have seen dating services that look good in their presentation.  There is one out there now that changed their name 3 times, they know how to look good, just check the consumer websites and see the huge amount of complaints about them.  Check their websites and what you see is the image of slickness.

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